That's nice! How did you meet him?
Fetlife. You know how you get those really shitty asshole messages on dating sites? Well, his was the opposite. He was smart, intelligent, sweet, inquiring and intriguing. He asked me about my interests in music. Even though i don’t mention it at ALL in my profile other than a couple pictures of me at the piano. And he was funny too. Gave him my kik to talk to him more because I’m barely on that site anyway. And the rest is history.
A guy has asked me to be his sub. We havent really talked details yet and Im really new to this. It'd actually be my first time... Thing is I haven't really been in any relationship in a while, i kind of just have a hook up here and there (sorry if that makes me sound like a slut) My question may be a stupid question, but would I be able to sleep with another guy (if i was interested in him)? Or would I not be allowed to? Or does it just depend?
I really really really really really really really hope you are having lots of communication with the guy you are considering to be your dominant. The fact that this is your first time, you are going to learn a lot about what you like and don’t like. Make sure he knows what is going on in your head as you experience each other.
I do not slut shame. If you wanna fuck people because you’re horny i really don’t give a flying hoot. as long as you’re being safe and consensual.
The boundaries you are creating with each other is between the both of you. If he’s okay with sharing then whatever, If he isn’t, then that’s something you both have to discuss if you want to venture into that sort of dynamic.
How long have you had your daddy?
We are a fairly recent pairing. He is a pleasant surprise in my life. someone who makes time for me, is local, treats me like an equal, a princess, has a Disney pass like me AND I get to be a sub? Sign me up!